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with abandon
This is what holds us back. This is what keeps us from growing and adventuring, trapping us in playing small: the instinctive feeling that
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with regrets
Stop falling for the invitation to be whatever someone else needs you to be. Be you.
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better than normal
The true meaning of “normal” has no life or vigor and yet our fear-based egos desperately watch, measure and assess how who we are and what
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room to rewire
Your brain is a constant meaning maker. It takes a stimulus and attaches to it the nearest narrative it can grab hold of. The problem is t
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surrender
What if we trusted life enough to let it surprise us? What if we believed in ourselves enough to be fluid in evolving and adapting? What i
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the time is anytime
Over thinking “right” gridlocks our lives. We sit paralyzed until the “right thing” can be done the “right way” at the “right time”. Ugh.
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time to shine: step 4
As much stress and anxiety as you suffer in self-doubt and anticipation of doing something unknown, new or avoided, you’d think you’d allow
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time to shine: step 3
Procrastination takes a toll on both your energy levels and your spirit. Negative self-talk inevitable in putting things off for tomorrow s
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time to shine: step 2
Mindfulness practices anchoring the mind in the safety and peace of the present are the best protection against these energetic leaks, but m
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time to shine: step 1
However, whatever the reasons, when the course of life starts to feel more like bracing against a crashing tide and less like steering a cou